This is still the big problem with the Indieweb: it’s too complicated for most people to worry about.
Are you using the Semantic Linkbacks plugin? This adds more detail to the database about the individual mentions but there is often a degree of theme tweaking required to get the different types displaying correctly.
Obviously, we want the different types (plain mention, like, reply, etc.) presented in the best way. For my blog I had to add custom code to my comments page and the callback function used by the theme to account for the different types and pull the relevant attributes from the database including the additional meta added by Semantic Linkbacks.
Far too much trouble for most.